It's better to urge a general than to ask for help(qiu ren ban shi qing jiang bu ru ji jiang )

We often say "please be better than a strong general" because when people make decisions, they are often influenced by some specific factors, so that they can make decisions decisively in emotional excitement. Only when they are used at a certain time and under certain circumstances can the effect be significant and things can be done easily.

(1) The general should try to poke the other party's pain: poke the other party's pain can stimulate the great power of the other party. To be exact, it is to motivate the other party from a moral point of view, so that the other party will no longer feel willing to do it, but should do it.

(2) Use each other's ability, self-esteem and reputation to motivate Generals: people need face, especially those who have a head and a face, so people's self-esteem, reputation, honor and ability It can be used as a weapon in the "radical tactics".

(3) We must be careful when we use words to stimulate each other: if we are too strict with our work, we will easily hurt our harmony.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Ren Ban Shi Qing Jiang Bu Ru Ji Jiang