Refuse to drink by pushing the boat along the river(yong shun shui tui zhou de fang shi ju jiu )

If someone puts pressure on you with some great principles concerning ethics, feelings, etc., and forces you to submit, then you might as well use the spear of the son to attack the shield of the son, and also use this great principle as a shield to fight back. For example:

Xiao Xu's friend, Zhigang, is a very nice person. He likes to encourage people to drink at the banquet. He usually adopts the method of encouraging people to drink first. He first compliments the other party as an "expert" or "friend", and then raises a toast to make it difficult for the other party to ride a tiger. Because he is already in the first place. If he does not drink, he is not worthy of being an "expert" or a "friend".

On that day, at the banquet, Zhigang tried the same trick again, persuading Xiaoxu to drink. But Xiaoxu didn't want to drink any more, so he said:

"You're killing me to drink today. If you treat me as a friend, don't hurt me! "

Zhigang is too embarrassed to persuade him any more. Xiaoxu uses the same speaking skills as him, that is, to attack Zizhi's shield with Zizhi's spear. Because Xiaoxu's implication is also very clear: you want me to drink is not enough friends! And wine persuaders all have a mentality: whether they drink or not, they have to admit that they are friends and brothers. We should seize this great principle of benevolence and justice that the other party can advocate and fight back. The persuader, due to the "friend"'s affection, should not give up.

Chinese PinYin : Yong Shun Shui Tui Zhou De Fang Shi Ju Jiu