We should be able to suffer losses rationally(ban shi yao zuo dao you li xing di chi kui )

What we should do is not to blindly suffer losses, but to rationally suffer losses and gain long-term benefits from short-term losses. We must pay attention to ways and skills to suffer losses. Some people, in order to make things better, go to suffer losses and eat hidden losses. As a result, they can only be "dumb people eat Coptis, but they can't say what they have suffered.". In order to recapture Jingzhou, Sun Quan pretended to let his younger sister marry Liu Bei. As a result, under Zhuge Liang's clever arrangement, Sun Quan not only lost his younger sister, but also lost his army. Jingzhou is still in the hands of others. It's not worth the loss. Loss, to eat in the light, at least, to let the other party realize.

In a word, suffering losses will make you more friendly, open-minded in the eyes of others, and easier to get help from others. No wonder some people say that "loss is happiness".

Chinese PinYin : Ban Shi Yao Zuo Dao You Li Xing Di Chi Kui