A compliment from the heart often has a good effect.
Allen, a famous American management consultant, once trained officers for the US Army Department. She told a story about that experience
Among the officers in the class, one of the captains didn't think much of motivation skills. About a week after the end of the training course, the colonel was in charge of an important briefing, and his boss wanted to praise him for his excellent work. The boss found a piece of yellow drawing paper, folded it into a beautiful card, wrote "great" on the outside, and wrote a few words of appreciation inside. Then he called the colonel and gave him the card.
After reading the card, the Colonel stood there for a moment, then walked out of the boss's office without looking up.
The captain's boss was a little puzzled, thinking: did I do something wrong? So he followed the Colonel quietly. As a result, when he saw the Colonel holding the card, he would show it off to everyone.
Before the end of the story, the Colonel used it better than his boss. He designed and printed a number of special cards for himself to praise others. Before long, he became one of the most popular officers in his unit.
If you can praise three people skillfully every day, you will naturally become a successful person with deep connections.
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