Ning Ning

Ning Ning

Ning Ning

(1547 - October 17, 1624), is the wife of Toyotomi Hideki, also known as“

To you

”Or“

You

”Ning Ning has always been regarded as the spiritual leader of the arbitrary sect of the FengChen family. Although she has not had children all her life, she has always taken care of the young Samurai trained by FengChen Xiuji as her mother and supported Xiuji's hegemony. After Xiuji became Guan Bai, she was known as Guan Bai“

Beizhengsuo

”。 After his death, he was buried in Gaotai temple in Kyoto, which was named huyueni in French. Ning Ning, his wife saiteng guidie and his wife asUNG were called "the third lady of the Warring States period".

Life figures

First married Xiuji

Ning Ning was born in 1547 in Chaori village, Weizhang. His father is a warrior of Zhitian family, Sugihara Dingli, and his mother, Sugihara Chaori, is the second daughter of Sugihara Jiali. In his childhood, Ning Ning and his sister were sent to his aunt's Qiqu palace to raise them, namely Asano Nagasaki. Asano family was the leader of Nobuta Zhitian's pawn. At that time, Toyotomi Xiuji was also a small pawn. Both sides also lived in Weizhang Qingzhou City. Asano Changsheng liked Xiuji very much. When Ning Ning was 14 years old, he asked Ning Ning to marry Xiuji, who was 25 years old. Based on this fate, the descendants of Changsheng became the 420000 famous family of Anyi Hiroshima in the future. It can be seen that Changsheng did not see the wrong person at that time. Chisui asanoka, the protagonist of the famous event in Japanese history, is one of the heirs of Changsheng. the wedding was held in August of the fourth year of Yonglu (1561). The process was very simple. They just laid wooden boards and straw mats on the mud floor of the thatched cottage of qianyejia, and drank wine with each other. The witness was Xiuji's colleagues, qiantianlijia and asUNG. Although Li's family is one year younger than Xiuji's, it is the fourth year after their marriage with song. Therefore, their marriage has always been regarded as Xiuji's predecessors. At that time, Xiuji was only young enough, and was born in a little poverty. Ning Ning and his life were so poor that they often needed to borrow things from Mrs. song next door. Ning Ning, who lived in Changbin, had been helping Xiuji, who had been on many expeditions, deal with her home affairs. She recommended many talents to Xiuji and tried her best to help them solve their problems. Kato and Fukushima are two examples. So when she honored the North political office, she was surrounded by a group of generals who said they were loyal to Xiuji or rather to Ning Ning But because of her personal feelings, most of the generals she valued were Wei Zhang. The fourth year of Yonglu (1561) was the second year that Nobuta Zhitian defeated Yoshimoto imagawa in the "battle of the narrow barrel", that is, the period when Nobuta Zhitian rose from an unknown local aristocrat to a prominent Warring States celebrity. After that, Xiuji was favored by Xinchang and Tengjie soared. Thirteen years after her marriage, Xiuji was 38 years old and Ningning was 27 years old. At that time, Xiuji had become the leader of 120000 Shi Daming city near the river Pipa Lake. Among all the family officials of Nobuta Zhitian, Xiuji was the second one to become the city leader after Zhizhi Guangxiu. Xiuji, who has become a city leader, has been unable to give birth to a child because Ning Ning has been unable to do so, so she begins to make trouble with the grass and get concubines. Ning Ning, as the principal, was not happy. She was not the kind of submissive woman. Besides, she and Xiuji were very rare couples in free love at that time. In 1572, Xiuji was awarded Jinbin city near the Yangtze River because of her contribution to the construction of Minamata one night city and the attack on shoai Changzheng and chaocang Yijing. In the second year of Tianzheng (1574), Xiuji took Ningning, who was in Gifu, and lived in a castle built by Changbin on the Bank of Pipa Lake. In 1576, Xinchang's antucheng was completed. Ning Ning prepared a congratulatory gift and went to antucheng to congratulate Xinchang. At this time, Ning Ning may have complained to Xinchang about her husband's romantic behavior. As a result, Xinchang wrote a letter of thanks to Ning Ning Ning in the future. In the letter, it was specially mentioned: "to Mimi: the gifts you sent are too abundant to return, so I don't want to return this time. I owe you. I haven't seen you for a long time. In my impression, you are very beautiful. You are already a beauty of 20 points. For a beauty like you who has both talent and appearance, fujihiro has repeatedly complained about some shortcomings. It's really nonsense. No matter how hard you look for that bald mouse (Xiuji), you can't find a second wife like you. Therefore, you can be as relaxed as possible, be your main room (of course, you have to have a side room to be called the main room), have the style of a housewife, and don't be ridiculed and jealous. It's the wife's job to take care of her husband. You should do your duty with great family style. You can show this letter to Xiuji "Xinchang" this letter gives Mi Mi a lot of support. Later, she often uses this letter to show off to Xiuji, but she also has to make concessions in essence. This letter is not the aerial materials created by later novelists or storytellers, but the authentic historical materials. It can be seen that Nobuta Zhitian is not only a great man, but also a man who respects women's status. However, Ning Ning, who went to Xinchang with a gift to celebrate the completion of the new city, seems to be not an ordinary wife. She even dared to tell the chairman of the board of directors (Xinchang) that her husband (General Manager) had contracted several mistresses at the celebration banquet. Moreover, the lecherous husband is not an ordinary salaried employee, but an assistant to Xinchang to unify the world. Since then, although Xiuji is still hunting everywhere, Ningning no longer quarrels with the side room and turns a deaf ear to everything.

Guan Bai's wife

Twenty one years after marriage, Hsin Chang passed away, and Xiuji became Hsin Chang's successor. In July of the third year, when Ning Ning was 38 years old, Xiuji manipulated the court from the Wu family to Regent Guan Bai, and Ning Ning was also known as the "northern political office". "Beizhengsuo" was originally the honorific name of the first lady of the Regent Guan Bai. Since Ning Ning ascended the throne, "beizhengsuo" in Japanese history has become a special term for Ning Ning. When Ning Ning was forty-one years old, the imperial court granted her a position of first rank, which was the highest official position that women could not expect. As for Ning Ning Ning's personality, she may not care much about this official position. However, in the eyes of the common people, her position is as stable as ever. Although Xiuji had countless side rooms at that time, and all the side rooms were ladies from noble families, only Ning Ning came from poor families, no one would deny the existence value of her first lady. Although Xiuji has "three thousand beauties in the harem and three thousand people love tea", she will not ignore Ning Ning just because of this, instead, she holds up the wife to heaven everywhere. For example, after Chacha gave birth to FengChen xiulai, Xiuji asked her son to call his mother Chacha "mother adult" and "big mother adult" when he called Ning Ning. Moreover, in her letter to Ning Ning Ning, she also made it clear that "among the women I like, Chacha is inferior to you.". Xiuji means that no matter how much he dotes on tea, the status of tea will never rival Ning Ning. In 1590, Xiuji called cha cha to the battlefield to sing and dance. At that time, she also asked Ning Ning to order Cha Cha to go to the battlefield. Although both husband and wife are from poor families, Xiuji has a sense of inferiority towards her family background. When she asked the Secretary to write her autobiography Guan Bai Ren Guan Ji in her later years, she deliberately indicated in the article that her mother was the daughter of zhongnayan Gongqing, and she was pregnant when she was serving emperor Fengtian in the imperial court. She gave birth to herself. What Xiuji means is that he is actually the emperor's illegitimate son. Ning Ning never conceals her family background. When she chats or quarrels with Xiuji in front of the maid, she always uses Weizhang dialect. A maid left a record saying that because both sides use dialect, no one can understand what the couple are quarreling about. On March 15, 1598, Xiuji held the last large-scale flower appreciation banquet at the Minmin temple in Kyoto. Of course, both the main room and the side room took part in the banquet in luxurious sedan chairs. At this time, the entrance order of sedan chair was also set in advance: the first one: beizhengsuo (Ningning). top 2: Mrs. Xiwan (tea). the third top: Mrs. Matsumura (Jingji Longzi). the fourth top: Mrs. sanmaru (the daughter of Nobuta Zhitian). top 5: Mrs. Jiahe (the daughter of Tianli family before Jiahe Dana). the sixth top: Mrs. Da Na Yan Dian (ex Tian Li Jia's wife song). with the exception of Qian Tianli's wife, song, all the others are the main and side rooms favored by Xiuji, and the order of the sedan chairs for ladies also shows how much Xiuji dotes on ladies. On the way to the banquet, there was a "drink snatching incident". To put it simply, Xiuji passed the first cup of wedding wine to Ning Ning Ning. After Ning Ning Ning finished drinking, she planned to pass the cup to the next lady. As a result, Cha Cha and SongWan quarreled and argued for the third one. I don't need to tell you clearly. As you all know, although tea and pine pills are just robbing wine cups on the surface, they are actually robbing the position of lady in the side room on the surface. In the end, Ning Ning was clever and resourceful. She gave full play to the first lady's courage and passed the wine cup to asUNG, the main room of Maeda's family. She not only solved the problem of side room competition on the spot, but also showed the first lady's dignity to all the side rooms and accompanying officials. Two months after the flower appreciation banquet, Xiuji fell ill and died on August 18 of that year, enjoying 62 years of life. Ning Ning, who has been married to Xiuji for 37 years, is now 52 years old. After Xiuji's death, Ning Ning and cha cha became hostile. It's not true to say that it's hostility. For Ning Ning Ning, the age of Cha Cha is equivalent to her daughter. Besides, Xiuji clearly distinguished the status of the main room and the side room before she died. Cha Cha never dared to despise Ning Ning's existence. The root of the trouble is family servants. Modern use

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