To punish by torture(xíng yú zhī huà)

To punish by torture

As a Chinese idiom, Pinyin means "x í ngy ú zh à Hu à", which means to treat with courtesy and law. Used later to refer to a harmonious couple. From Shi Da Ya Si Qi.

The origin of Idioms

1. In Shi Da Ya Si Qi (yinzhai), it is said that "the punishment is to the widowed wife, but the brother is to the family." Zheng xuanjian: "King Wen received his wife with courtesy." (2) Guoyu. Jinyu: Wen Gong asked Yu Xuchen, "if I want to teach my father Fu Chen, can it be good? He said to him, "it's in chenye. You can't bend, Qi Shi can't bend, you can't lift, you can't help, you can't help, you can't see, you can't talk, you can't listen, you can't plan. The quality will be good and virtuous, praise it, then the economy can wait. If there is any violation of the quality, the teaching will not be involved. What is the good thing to do! I heard that in the past, the king of Wen did not change his position, but he did not change his position. The king of Wen did not worry about his mother, Fu Fuqin, Fu Fufan, and the king was not angry. He was a filial friend of the two Guo States, and a benefactor of the two Cai states. "The poem says:" punishment is for widowed wives, but for brothers, it is for family and country. "So we use the four sages. He ascended to the throne after consulting Bayu, Erguo, Hongyao and Nangong, and Caiyuan and Xinyin, focusing on Zhou, Shao, Bi and Rong, remembering ningbaishen and gentle people. Therefore, the book of songs says, "it's better to benefit Zonggong than to threaten him when he loses his mind. If it is, then the king of Wen is not a teacher. "Gong said," but is teaching useless? He said to him, "Hu Weiwen is good for his character. The old man was born to learn, not to learn. "The duke said," what are the eight diseases of Naifu! He said to him, "the talent of an official teacher is Qi Shi Zhizhen, who is a monk, a dwarf Fu Lu, who is a monk and a deaf man. Children's fainting, visiting and fluke are not the talents of the officials and teachers. Those who are of solid origin, who are taught by their husbands, and who are benefited by their physical quality. If Sichuan has its origin, then angpu will be the largest. 」

Idiom usage

Wang Tingna's the story of the lion's roar · strange jealousy: if you talk about the punishment, you will not let King Wen, but you are afraid that your wife will not be like a lady. On "three generations of Kong's wife" in an Shi Quan Shu of Qing Dynasty: what! The little Confucian did not know the meaning of the word and slandered the holy gate. It is not necessarily inferior to King Wen that the master was punished. How could he be expelled if his wife was inferior to his concubine? What about three generations? The relationship between husband and wife is very important. If it is too small, the family law is too harsh. If it is too big, Kong is so unfortunate. Moreover, the master is a model of all ages, and his wife's reputation has been damaged because of her immorality. What's more, his wife's daughter-in-law was also expelled, and his daughter-in-law's daughter-in-law was also expelled. What's the honor? One day, after playing with the white text of Tan Gong, I read that "if you are not a wife, you are not a white mother." I suddenly said: if you are not a wife, you must be a side room. However, the so-called "mother" is not the mother who was expelled, but the mother from whom she was born. Those who "do not lose their mother" refuse to accept the funeral of three years (three years, 25 months). Gai Si was born of a common man. Bo Yu once taught him to take care of his mother's death for three years. Zisi said: "in the past, there was nothing wrong with the way of my first gentleman. If the way was prosperous, it would be prosperous." Since then, the family law of Kong family, which is the mother of the common people, has never made him mourn for three years. Therefore, it is said: "the Confucius family did not lose their mother since Zisi." Very clear. In Tan Gong, the word "Chu" is used to replace the word "Sheng". Later Confucianists could not read themselves. How could wanshizong's wife, Lang, be notorious? If his wife did not expel him, but falsely preached that he was expelled, it would be a lifelong hatred. A good man and a good man are as good as a modern man. How about the wife of the great sage, who can make her aunt and wife hold eternal hatred for three generations? It is appropriate to correct the common explanation and show it all over the world to wake up the mistake.

Chinese PinYin : xíng yú zhī huà