Three people, there must be my teacher(sān rén xíng，bì yǒu wǒ shī)

Three people, there must be my teacher

Three people line, there must be my teacher, from the Analects of Confucius. Confucius said, "if three people walk, there must be a teacher. Choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones." Confucius said, "there must be something worth learning from other people's behavior. Choose other people's good study, see other people's shortcomings, reflect on whether they have the same shortcomings, and if so, correct them. "

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Explanation: [3] imaginary number, many words. 3、 Six, nine, hundred, ten, thousand are the same. This sentence refers to many people. Yan: it is also the meaning of the word "Yuzhi", translated as "in it". Translation: "several people with the same hobby walk together, some of them can be worthy of my imitation." It means that we should not be ashamed to ask questions and learn from others with an open mind. A person worthy of imitation. (noun) if translated into imitation, it is not smooth; if translated into teacher, it is not consistent with the actual meaning. In real life, in fact, no one is perfect, and everyone has something worth following. brief analysis: Confucius' saying that "if three people walk, there must be my teacher" has been highly praised by future generations of intellectuals. This reflects the wisdom of ancient sages. His spirit of learning from others with an open mind is very valuable, but what is more valuable is that he should teach not only the good but also the bad, which contains profound philosophy. His words are helpful to guide us to deal with people, cultivate our moral character and increase our knowledge. Example: if you don't hear about it, you should choose the good ones as your relatives and friends. This sentence shows Confucius' self-cultivation and open-minded spirit. It includes two aspects: on the one hand, it is the spirit of learning with an open mind to choose the good and learn from the good; on the other hand, it is the spirit of self-cultivation to change the bad and learn from the bad. In this way, no matter how good or bad people are, they can be teachers. There is a record in the Analects of Confucius that once the Duke of Wei asked Zigong, where did Confucius learn his knowledge? Zigong replied that the way of ancient sages was left among the people. The sages knew its great part, and the immortals knew its small part. They all had the way of ancient sages. "Why don't teachers learn, and why are they always teachers? (Analects of Confucius · Zizhang) he learns from everyone at any time and any place, and anyone can be his teacher. Therefore, there is no fixed teacher. There are many records in the Analects of Confucius, such as Confucius entering the temple and asking about everything (Analects of Confucius · Bayi). When Zaiyu sleeps during the day, Confucius says, "I was to others at first, listening to their words and believing in their deeds; now I am to others, listening to their words and observing their deeds. Yu Yu and Gai are. (Analects of Confucius gongyechang) Zi Gong told Confucius that Zi Gong could only "smell one and know two", but Yan Hui could "smell one and know ten". Confucius said, "the Buddha is like a Buddha. I am as good as you. "(the Analects of Confucius gongyechang) embodies this spirit. Such spirit and attitude are worth learning. It means: if many people walk together, some of them will be worthy of my imitation. We should choose their advantages to learn, and pay attention to correct their shortcomings if we have them; if not, we should guard against them. The attitude and spirit of "three people's behavior, there must be my teacher", "choose the good and follow it, and change the bad" also reflects an important principle of getting along with people. Always pay attention to the strengths of others, always take others' shortcomings as a warning, naturally you will see others' strengths, be kind to others, treat others leniently and be strict with yourself. This is not only the best way to cultivate and improve themselves, but also an important condition to promote harmonious interpersonal relationship.

The seventh chapter of Shuer

Confucius said: "tell but not write, believe and cherish the past, steal more than I am in Laopeng." Confucius said, "it's better for me to learn from silence, never tire of learning and never tire of teaching." Confucius said, "if we don't practice morality, if we don't talk about learning, if we hear righteousness, we can't move, if we are not good at it, we can't change it." The son of Yanju, Shenshen as well as Yaoyao as well. Confucius said, "I've been declining for a long time! I don't dream of seeing Duke Zhou again. " Confucius said, "to be determined by Tao, to be guided by virtue, to be guided by benevolence, and to travel by art." Confucius said, "I've never been without instruction when I've done this on my own." Confucius said, "if you are not angry or angry, if you are not sentimental, if you take one corner, if you do not take three, you will not be able to do it again." The son ate on the side of the bereaved, and was not full. So he cried every day, but he did not sing. He said to Yan Yuan, "if you use it, you will do it. If you give it up, you will hide it. Only I and you are husband." Zilu said, "who is the leader of the three armies?" Confucius said, "I will not fight with those who die without regret. He will also be afraid when facing the situation, and he who is good at planning will be successful. " Confucius said, "if you are rich, you can ask for it. Even if you are a whip bearer, I will do it. If you can't ask for it, I will do what I like." zi's caution: Qi, Zhan, Ji. He was in Qi Wenshao, but he didn't know the meat in March. He said, "if you don't want to be happy, it's best to be here." Ran you said, "is master Wei Jun?" Zi Gong said, "no, I will ask." He said, "who is Boyi Shuqi?" Said: "the ancient sage also." And he said, "why do you complain?" He said, "what's the difference between seeking benevolence and getting benevolence?" Out said: "master not also." Confucius said, "if you eat sparsely and drink water, you can bend your arms and rest on it. Music is also in it. Unrighteous and rich and expensive, to me like floating clouds Confucius said, "if you add me a few years and make 50 years to study the book of changes, there will be no big mistake." Zi's elegant words: poetry, calligraphy and ceremony are all elegant words. Ye Gong asked Confucius about Zi Lu, but Zi Lu was wrong. Confucius said: "You Xi did not say: his behavior is also, angry and forget food, happy to forget worry, I do not know the old is coming to Yuner." Confucius said, "I'm not born to know. I'm good at antiquity, and I'm sensitive to it." Zi Buyu: strange, powerful, chaotic and divine. Confucius said, "when three people walk, there must be my teacher. Choose those who are good and follow them. Change those who are not good." Confucius said, "born with virtue, what is the way to give?" Confucius said, "Er San Zi, do you take me as a hermit? I have nothing to hide from you, and I have nothing to do with my two or three sons, which is Qiu Ye. " His four teachings are literature, practice, loyalty and faith. Confucius said: "sage, I can't see it, I can see a gentleman." Confucius said, "good people, I can't see them. I can see those who are persistent. It's hard to be immortal when you die, when you are empty, when you are full, when you are about to be peaceful. " Confucius said, "if there is someone who does not know what to do, I have nothing to do with it. If you hear more, you will follow the good, if you see more, you will know more, and if you know more, you will know less. " It's hard to talk about each other's hometown. When a boy sees it, he is confused. Confucius said, "it's better to advance than to retreat. Why not. If a person is clean enough to advance, he should be clean enough not to go Confucius said, "is benevolence far away? If I want to be benevolent, I will be benevolent. " CHEN Si Bai asked, "does Duke Zhao know the etiquette?" Confucius said, "know the etiquette." Confucius retreated, bowed to the Sorcerer's horse, and advanced forward, saying: "I heard that a gentleman is not a party, but a gentleman is also a party? You take Wu as the same surname, which is called Wu Mencius. If you know the propriety, who doesn't know the propriety? " Wuma is expected to report. Confucius said: "Qiu is also lucky. If there is a fault, one must know it. " If a son is good at singing with others, he will make the opposite, and then he will make peace with them. Confucius said, "Wen, don't you think I'm a Jew? If I practice a gentleman, I will not get it. " Confucius said, "if it is holy and benevolent, how dare I. If we do not tire of it and teach others tirelessly, we can say that we are already in the clouds. " Gongxihua said, "only disciples can't learn." Pray, Zilu, for your sickness. Confucius said, "are there any Zilu said to him, "yes. Lei said, "pray for the gods." Confucius said, "I have been praying for a long time." Confucius said: "extravagance means no grandson, frugality means solidity. It's better not to be a sun than a sun. " Confucius said, "a gentleman is honest, and a villain is sad." Zi is warm but fierce, powerful but not fierce, respectful but peaceful.

Discrimination

Although "three people, there must be my teacher" can be said to be a household name, but people are not always able to do it. One of the problems people often make is that they often look at their own advantages and find the shortcomings of others; or they only look at their own advantages and disadvantages, but can't see their own disadvantages and advantages of others; they love to compare their own advantages with the disadvantages of others. In getting along with others, they are not convinced that they are better than themselves and stronger than themselves; they despise and despise those who have shortcomings and mistakes; they are more strict than others and lenient than themselves; they use correct principles as flashlights and only light others but not themselves. In this way, we will not only block the way of learning from others and improving ourselves, but also inevitably create disharmony and even conflicts among people. this sentence can also be understood as three people do things, we must have our own discipline and system. If there is no certain system of three people, things will not be successful, or there will be contradictions among three people or groups.

Another point

The "three" in this sentence is actually the word "Shen". The full text is regarded as "to participate in people's behavior, there must be my teacher, choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones", which means "referring to other people's words and deeds, we can find out where we can learn from. If we are better than ourselves, we will learn from them. If we are not good, we will change them, and if we are not, we will encourage them."

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