Three grievances(sān yuàn chéng fǔ)

Three grievances

"Three grievances into a mansion" is a Chinese word, which means that if you have a grudge with three people (or more people), you will hate each other.

[interpretation] if you have a grudge with three or more people, you will have a grudge against them. [source] biography of Gai Xun in the later Han Dynasty: "at that time, xiaohuangmen Jingzhao Gaowang was a drug supervisor. Fortunately, he was the crown prince. Because Jian Shuo belonged to wangzi, he was filial and honest, so Xun refused to use it. Or: "the crown prince, the vice-president, is a favorite of the emperor. If the son disobeys him, the so-called three grievances will make the government a success." Li Xian notes: "Fu, Ju also." [example] in business, all of us should be reconciled and make a fortune, and remember not to make a house out of three grievances.

Chinese PinYin : sān yuàn chéng fǔ