the state of qi is too powerful to be a partner in marriage(qí dà fēi ǒu)

the state of qi is too powerful to be a partner in marriage

Qi dafeiou, a Chinese idiom, Pinyin Q í D à f à I à u, refers to the person who resigns a marriage to show that he is humble in family status or position and does not dare to ascend.

pronunciation

Pinyin: Q í D à f à I à u à

explain

It refers to the person who resigns his marriage and shows that he is humble in family status or position and does not dare to ascend.

Classics

Zuo Qiuming's "Zuo Zhuan · the sixth year of Duke Huan" in the pre Qin period: the Marquis of Qi wanted to be Wenjiang's wife, Zheng Dazi, and then he left. When asked why, the eldest son said, "every man has his own coupling. Qi Da is not my coupling." Lu Lin did not know about it, but he refused because of his age. ——The seventh chapter of broomstick.

usage

Subject predicate type; as predicate and object; modest words to express not daring to climb.

story

In the spring and Autumn period, Duke Fu of Qi wanted to marry his daughter to the prince Hu of Zheng. "Everyone has his own spouse. Qi is a big country, not my spouse," he said Later, the Beirong tribe invaded the state of Qi, and the state of Qi asked Zheng for help. The prince Hu led Zheng's army to help the state of Qi defeat Beirong. When Duke Qi mentioned it again, the crown prince refused. Others asked him, he said: "before I didn't help the state of Qi, I didn't dare to marry the daughter of the Marquis of Qi. Today, I was ordered by my father to rescue the state of Qi. I married my wife and went back. Isn't this the exchange of Zheng's army for my own marriage? What will the people of Zheng say about me? " I said goodbye.

Chinese PinYin : qí dà fēi ǒu