It's not polite to come but not to go
"Come but not go" is a classic sentence in the book of rites. interpretation: it means that you will respond to the actions imposed on you by others. it's not in line with etiquette to show kindness to others. source: qulishang in the book of Rites: "it's not polite to go without coming; it's not polite to come without going."
Chinese PinYin : lái ér bù wǎng fēi lǐ yě
It's not polite to come but not to go
neither priest nor layman -- nondescript. bù sēng bù sú
arouse one 's all efforts to make the country prosperous. lì jīng tú zhì
flee from evil and strive to walk in fair fortune 's way. bì xiōng qū jí
distinguished air of elegance and coquetry. yí tài wàn qiān
judge other people 's feelings by one 's own. néng jìn qǔ pì