Teach a woman, teach a baby(jiào fù chū lái，jiào ér yīng hái)

Teach a woman, teach a baby

Chinese idiom means that education should be given to a person in time and as soon as possible.

It comes from Yan Zhitui's family precepts to teach children in the Northern Qi Dynasty: "as the saying goes:" when a woman comes, she teaches her children. "It's true." A wise man is made without teaching, but a fool is not good at teaching. A man of the mean does not know if he does not teach. In ancient times, the sage king had the method of "fetal education". When he was pregnant with his son in March, he went out to live in a different palace. He did not look evil, and his ears did not listen rashly. His sound and taste were based on etiquette. The jade edition of the book contains the golden chamber. When a child is born, the teacher guarantees filial piety, benevolence, propriety and righteousness, and guides the practice. If you can't understand the color of a person when you are young, you should teach him how to do it and how to stop it. If you are several years old, you can save punishment. If the parents are dignified and kind, the children will be filial if they are afraid of caution. I see that there is love in the world without education. Every time we can't, we can't do what we want. We should admonish and reward, laugh back, and have knowledge. When you are used to arrogance, you copy it. You beat it until you die, but you have no power. When you get angry, you get resentful. When you grow up, you lose your virtue. Confucius said: "less success is like nature, habit is like nature." Yes. As the saying goes, "when a woman comes, she teaches her baby." It's true. People who can't teach their children don't want to be guilty of them, but they can't bear to hurt their skin and ears. When the disease as the Oracle, an de needn't soup medicine needle AI save it? Should we also think that those who are diligent in supervising and training are willing to abuse the flesh and blood? I have to be honest! The strictness of father and son is not allowed to have sex; the love of flesh and blood is not allowed to be simple. If you are simple, you will be kind and filial; if you are intimate, you will be indifferent. Since ancient times and today, there are many disadvantages. The virtuous and the handsome can be loved by themselves, and the stubborn should be pitied. Those who are partial to favors, even if they want to be generous, will suffer even more. There was a scholar official in the Qi Dynasty who said to me, "I have a son who is seventeen years old. He is quite familiar with books. He teaches Xianbei language and plays the pipa. He wants to understand it a little. In this way, he can serve the public and ministers. He loves them and is also important." I bow and do not answer. It's strange, the Godson of this man! If this industry from Qing Xiang, also do not want you Cao.

Chinese PinYin : jiào fù chū lái，jiào ér yīng hái