feel for others(jiāng xīn bǐ xīn)

feel for others

Heart to heart, Chinese idiom, Pinyin for Ji āī NGX ī Nb ǐ x ī n, means put yourself in other people's shoes. It comes from Zhu Xi's Zhu Zi Yu Lei Da Xue San in the Southern Song Dynasty.

Introduction to Idioms

Comparing heart with heart is a Chinese idiom, which comes from Zhu Xi's Zhu Zi Yu Lei Da Xue San in Southern Song Dynasty.

Analysis of the source

[source] in Zhu Xi's Zhu Zi Yu Lei · Da Xue San of Song Dynasty, "as the saying goes," compare heart to heart, then each one will be equal. " Taking rafters to buy firewood and lantern riddle to think of others

Usage and sentence making

In order to get along with others, Taiwei does not care for others, but he is ready to make a plan. If we can compare our hearts in our life, we will have more tolerance and understanding among people. Jiang Guihua's heart to heart (Revised)

Related stories

In the spring and Autumn period, King Zhuang of Chu, one of the five tyrants, held a grand banquet one night to reward the meritorious officers and soldiers. In the atmosphere of singing and dancing, suddenly, all the lights went out. In the dark, King Zhuang's concubine was molested by a soldier. She was so quick that she grabbed the crown of the soldier's head, let the king of Zhuang light the lamp, and caught the man without the crown. Not only did King Zhuang not get angry, but he said, "it's all right. At this moment, you don't have to stick to women's day to enjoy and drink. And let all the people take off their heads. When the light comes on again, none of the soldiers will wear their heads. it's a rare generosity, full of humanity. A few years later, the Chu army fought with the Jin army. The Chu army was at a disadvantage. Suddenly, a soldier rushed to the enemy's line and turned the defeat into victory. This soldier was the one who molested his concubine. In those days, King Zhuang went through a narrow road and stayed a step with others, which fully showed his generous heart and admirable human feelings. He did not expect to get a return, but got a return, which is where his success lies. Li Jing of the Tang Dynasty, who was once the prefect of Emperor Sui Chang, first discovered that Li Yuan intended to plot the world and personally reported to Emperor Sui Yang. Li Yuan wanted to kill Li Jing after he destroyed the Sui Dynasty. Li Shimin opposed revenge and repeatedly asked to protect his life. Later, Li Jing galloped on the battlefield, fought tirelessly, established a stable state, and made great achievements for the Tang Dynasty; Wei Zheng once encouraged the prince to build and kill Li Shimin. Li Shimin also disregarded the old grudges and valued his talents according to his ability, which made Wei Zheng feel happy to meet his confidant and make full use of him. He also made great achievements for the Tang Dynasty. It is said that Lu Zhi, the Prime Minister of the Tang Dynasty, once believed that Dr. Taichang Li Jifu was in a gang for personal gain when he had a position and power, so he was demoted to Mingzhou as a long history. Soon after, Lu Zhi was dismissed and demoted to Zhongzhou near Mingzhou. The later Prime Minister knew that Li and Lu had some personal grudges, so he played tricks and promoted Li Jifu to be the governor of Zhongzhou, so that he could be Lu Zhi's immediate superior, with the intention of killing people with a knife. I don't want Li Jifu to forget his old grudges. Moreover, because of his fear of getting married, he made a special effort to have a drink with Lu Zhi at the beginning of his term of office, which made the current prime minister's plot to kill people with a knife come to nothing. Lu Zhi was deeply moved by this, so he actively offered some ideas to help Li Jifu manage Zhongzhou better and better day by day. Li Jifu did not retaliate. He was lenient and helped others.

Chinese PinYin : jiāng xīn bǐ xīn