Eight or nine is ten(bā jiǔ bù lí shí)

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In the early days of reform and opening up, Li Shanjun met Zhang Yuxia by accident and fell in love with the girl at first sight. However, Zhang Yuxia secretly misunderstood Li Shanjun as a hooligan. To their surprise, Li Mengxing, the parents of both sides, was secretly making up a marriage for them. After some twists and turns, they finally resolved their misunderstanding, and their love affair quickly warmed up and entered the palace of marriage. However, the great changes before and after marriage make it difficult for them to get along with each other and reach the critical point of marriage. However, at every critical moment, their reluctance makes them face the reality bravely. In overcoming one difficulty after another, they gradually learned to understand each other and tolerate each other, and gradually grew up and matured in their marriage. Finally, they understood the true meaning of tolerant and open-minded marriage, and inadvertently revealed their pride and joy in the family established by mutual support.

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1-56-1011-1516-2021-2526-3031-3536-40 < UL > < DL > < DT > Episode 1 during the period of reform and opening up, new China is in the process of flourishing, and young men and women's thoughts have also changed, actively going out on blind dates and boldly pursuing their own happiness. Li Shanjun, a young man working in a shipyard, was born with a good appearance. Although he was born with a good appearance, he is still alone. With the help of a matchmaker, he meets his blind date Hao Guixiang. Hao Guixiang was born five big three rough, without a trace of femininity, and gentle Li Shanjun formed a sharp contrast. Li Shanjun did his homework before going on a blind date. He borrowed a pair of toad glasses from his good friend gaopan and a high-end dress. Gao Pan is also on a blind date in another place. The object of his blind date is engaged in medical work in the hospital. His surname is Zhang Yuxia. Zhang Yuxia was a quiet and dignified young woman with a high education. Li Shanjun is not satisfied with Hao Guixiang and peeks at Gao Pan's blind date. Zhang Yuxia finds Li Shanjun peeking at him. She regards him as a hooligan. Gaopan was torn by Li Shanjun's label for his loaned toad glasses. In a rage, he had a physical conflict with Li Shanjun. Hao Guixiang is eager to protect Li Shanjun. In a hurry, a flying leg kicks Gao Pan. Li Shanjun was shocked to see his good friend Gao Pan fall to the ground injured. He sent Gao Pan to the hospital for treatment. In the process of looking for a doctor, Li Shanjun walked around the hospital and accidentally ran into Zhang Yuxia, who was changing clothes in the rest room. When Zhang Yuxia saw that Li Shanjun was the one who was peeking, she was furious and drove Li Shanjun away. Zhang's father, who works in a transportation company, is eager to marry her daughter, Zhang Yuxia. Zhang's mother, because of her high vision for many years, always checks on Zhang Yuxia every time, resulting in Zhang Yuxia missing many marriages. Zhang's father takes a fancy to Li Shanjun, a talented man. He is Li Shanjun's master. Although Li Shanjun is a fool, his essence is not bad. Worried that his daughter Zhang Yuxia would not get married, Zhang's father decided to set up a bridge between Zhang Yuxia and Li Shanjun. Li's mother has put down her posture and dare not interfere in Zhang Yuxia's mate selection. The most urgent task is to marry Zhang Yuxia out. Li's mother decided to say hello to Li Shanjun's parents first. Li Shanjun's parents were eager to find a daughter-in-law, and the elder agreed to marry Zhang. Li Shanjun and Zhang Yuxia are in the middle of the drum. They are not good at each other's impression, and there are two times of friction in succession. If they are on a blind date, there may be more contradictions. The parents of Li Shanjun and Zhang Yuxia want to get married, but Li's father is stingy, so he can't bear to ask the lion's mother to marry him. Zhang's mother asked the Li family to buy washing machines and other betrothal gifts, which cost nearly thousands of yuan. Although Li's father wanted to marry his son Li Shanjun, he was reluctant to spend money. As a result, the marriage between Zhang and Li families was shelved. Zhang Yuxia found out that she was going to marry Li Shanjun. She said she would not marry Li at all. Although Li Shanjun was misunderstood by Zhang Yuxia twice, from the moment he saw Zhang Yuxia for the first time, he had a strange liking for him. Due to the dispute between them, Li Shanjun had to bury his love for Zhang Yuxia in his heart. When sleeping at night, Li Shanjun clenched Zhang Yuxia's photo and fell asleep. When Li's mother came into the room, she saw Li Shanjun holding Zhang Yuxia's photo. She guessed that Li Shanjun had taken a fancy to Zhang Yuxia. Li Shanjun had been kissing Zhang Yuxia many times, and no woman had ever been in his eyes. Now he took a fancy to Zhang Yuxia, which is great news for Li's mother. Li's mother secretly hid from Li's father and bought thousands of yuan of betrothal gifts accompanied by her eldest daughter Li Jiaqin. Li's father later learned that Li's mother made a betrothal gift on her own, but he had to accept the fact and bring the betrothal gift to Zhangjia. Zhang Yuxia knew that she was married to Li Shanjun and refused to accept the betrothal gifts brought by Li's father. Li's father and Zhang's mother quarreled and went back home with all the betrothal gifts in a rage. Li Shanjun is unable to extricate himself from falling in love with Zhang Yuxia. He tells Hao Guixiang that the person he loves is Zhang Yuxia. Hao Guixiang gets angry and goes to the police station to report Li Shanjun's infidelity. Li Shanjun and Zhang Yuxia are summoned by the police. They resolve the misunderstanding. Zhang Yuxia finds out that Li Shanjun is actually an ideal literary youth who likes literature as much as she does. Li Shanjun took the opportunity to invite Zhang Yuxia to the cinema, where they established a love relationship. Zhang Yuxia later took Li Shanjun home to see her parents. Zhang's father and mother accepted Li Shanjun. Zhang's father took the initiative to come to Li's father to propose a marriage. Li's father hated that he went to Zhang's family to propose a marriage. Under Zhang's mother's encouragement, he agreed to the marriage between the two families. When the wedding day came, Li Shanjun held a grand wedding. When Zhang Yuxia, who likes to be quiet, learned that Li Shanjun's friend was going to make trouble in her bridal chamber, she was so scared that she ran out of the bridal chamber and did not dare to stay any longer. < / DD > < br > < DT > episode 3 < / dt > < DD > the young man headed by Gao Pan is going to make a bridal chamber. Zhang Yuxia is afraid of making a bridal chamber and escapes home when everyone is unprepared. Li's father and his party found that Zhang Yuxia had disappeared. They were all muttering in their hearts. Li's father guessed that Zhang Yuxia had run home, so they went to Zhangjia to look for Zhang Yuxia. As Li's father guessed, Zhang Yuxia hid at home and did not dare to go out. Zhang Yuxia just ran ahead of time because she heard Gao Pan and his party shouting about the bridal chamber. Gaopan was afraid that the world would not be in chaos. He always made trouble. Li Shanjun could have spent a happy wedding night with Zhang Yuxia. Because of gaopan's disturbance, Li Shanjun's wedding night was ruined. At the request of Li's father, Zhang Yuxia left her mother's home and returned to Li's home. Zhang's mother is very worried that Zhang Yuxia will be bullied by Li's family, but Zhang Yuxia has married out. Zhang's mother can only watch Zhang Yuxia leave with Li's father. The water poured out and the daughter married out, Zhang's mother loves Zhang Yuxia for a while, but she can't love Zhang Yuxia for the rest of her life. Li Shanjun enters the bridal chamber with Zhang Yuxia at night. Although Zhang Yuxia has married Li Shanjun, she keeps alert to Li Shanjun and refuses to go to bed with him. Li Shanjun's lust is unbearable, and he hugs Zhang Yuxia by force. Zhang Yuxia slaps him in the face. Li Shanjun thinks he is Zhang Yuxia's husband. After being slapped in the face, he angrily scolds Zhang Yuxia for her faults. Zhang Yuxia refused to give in, warning Li Shanjun not to have bad intentions, otherwise she would go back to her mother's home. Li Shanjun was threatened by Zhang Yuxia, but he did not dare to touch Zhang Yuxia again. The next morning, Zhang Yuxia got up early and went out to work. Li Shanjun got up to have breakfast. He thought Zhang Yuxia made the breakfast and marveled at Zhang Yuxia's craftsmanship. When Li's father saw that Li Shanjun had a misunderstanding, he quickly stressed that his mother made the breakfast. Li Shanjun went back to work after breakfast. Some of his colleagues joked to Li Shanjun about Zhang Yuxia's escape on the wedding night. Li Shanjun knows that Gao Pan spread the scandal of Zhang Jia, and he is dissatisfied with Gao Pan. In the evening, accompanied by her husband Haihai, Li Jiaqin goes home for dinner. Li Shanjun wants to taste Zhang Yuxia's skills. He plans to wait for Zhang Yuxia to come back to cook. As time went by, Zhang Yuxia didn't go home. The sea was impatient with waiting, and he didn't understand Li's father's delay in cooking. It's evening. Zhang Yuxia is working outside and doesn't go home. Li Shanjun and others can't see Zhang Yuxia coming back, so they have to leave home to look for Zhang Yuxia. People come and go in the street. Li Shanjun finds Zhang Yuxia and asks her why she doesn't go home to cook dinner on time. Zhang Yuxia excused herself from the responsibility on the pretext that she did not know how to cook. Li Shanjun is dissatisfied with Zhang Yuxia and quarrels with her all the way home. Li's mother happened to come to visit Zhang. She overheard Li Shanjun threatening to settle with Zhang Yuxia. Li Shanjun just talked about it and never thought to teach Zhang Yuxia a lesson. Li's mother took what Li Shanjun said seriously. She found out that Zhang Yuxia was in conflict with Li Shanjun because she couldn't cook, so she said she would take time to teach Zhang Yuxia how to cook. Because Zhang Yuxia can't cook and Dahai has no patience to stay in Zhangjia, he and his wife Li Jiaqin leave. On the way, he mentions the quarrel between Li Shanjun and Zhang Yuxia, and takes the newly married couple as a laughing stock. Li Jiaqin is Li Shanjun's sister. Making a fool of Li Shanjun is the same as making a fool of Li Jiaqin. When she saw her husband Dahai talking about the contradiction between Li Shanjun and his wife with a schadenfreude attitude, she immediately got angry and scolded Dahai. After Li Shanjun got married, he found it difficult to live in peace with Zhang Yuxia. He began to regret marrying Zhang Yuxia. Zhang Yuxia also regretted marrying Li Shanjun. After some discussion, the couple decided to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce. Yang Shengli, who works in the Civil Affairs Bureau, is Li Jiaqin's classmate. Li Shanjun takes Zhang Yuxia to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a divorce

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