To be the master of one's family
It's from the book of Rites: Tan Gong Shang: "when Ziyou asked about the funeral utensils, the master said," there's death (nothing) in the family ", which means that the affairs are consistent with the family's economic situation.
It is suitable and consistent. In line with the family economic situation. [example] it is a posthumous letter to Yu Qizi, saying: "erdangying funeral utensils ~." (Biography of Xinfan Hu Dayin by Zhao Bi of Ming Dynasty) it means to do things in accordance with family economic situation.
Chinese PinYin : chèn jiā yǒu wú
To be the master of one's family
from the sideline while talking. dǎ biān gǔ
judge other people 's feelings by one 's own. néng jìn qǔ pì
dishes and wine cups from dinner were piled up at random. bēi pán láng jí
discord between husband and wife. qín sè shī tiáo
have a preconceived idea at heart. xiōng yǒu qiū hè