Don't say nothing when there is a contradiction(you le mao dun bu ba hua shuo jue )

If you don't say absolutely when you are in conflict with others, it can reflect a person's noble character of tolerance and magnanimity. Under normal circumstances, people's measurement of size is difficult to show. When you have conflicts with others, which makes it difficult for you to tolerate, you can show clearly whether you can tolerate others. At this time, only those people with noble thoughts and moral character will keep their heads clear, make a tolerant attitude, not say absolutely, and avoid further damage to the two already injured hearts.

After the conflict, both sides are sure that none of them is happy in heart. It's easy to lose his temper and say evil words. This kind of happiness can only be temporary. What will be hurt is the long-term relationship between the two sides and their own reputation. Therefore, even if there is a big contradiction, we should also grasp one point, that is, not to say absolutely, to give each other, but also to give ourselves a step down.

Some people will say, "if there is a conflict, I'm going to break up with him. So what if I break up?" Is that true? You know, breaking up temporarily doesn't mean breaking up.

A friendly breakup will also set the stage for possible future reconciliation. Sometimes friends break up is not a complete break of each other's feelings, but because of a misunderstanding. If we take the way of friendly breakup and don't say no, then one day the misunderstanding will be relieved, and it is likely to make up again, so that the seeds of friendship will bloom again.

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