Don't hurt other people's self-esteem(bu shang ji bie ren de zi zun )

Carnegie warned people: "be smarter than others, but don't tell others you are smarter than them." Any smart criticism will lead to the boredom of others, and the lack of empathy of blame and complaint is more detrimental to the development of interpersonal relationship. Benjamin Franklin was not smooth when he was young, but later he became rich in diplomacy and good at dealing with people, so he became the U.S. ambassador to France. The secret of his success is that he only talks about the good of others and never talks about the bad of others. Learn to remind others that we don't think they are smart or ignorant. Remember, as long as you don't hurt other people's self-esteem and self-worth, everything is easy to do.

Chinese PinYin : Bu Shang Ji Bie Ren De Zi Zun