Deliberately leave a little flaw in the obvious place(gu yi zai ming xian de di fang liu yi dian er xia ci )

In life, we often see such a phenomenon: there are some people who seem to be perfect in all aspects, but they are often not very likable; while the people who are likable are often those who have advantages but also obvious disadvantages.

Why is that? This is because when ordinary people associate with perfect and flawless people, they will inevitably feel inferior because they are inferior to each other. If you find that smart people have the same shortcomings as yourself, you will reduce your inferiority complex, feel safe, and be more willing to associate with them. You think, who would like to associate with people who are easy to feel inferior? Therefore, people who are not perfect are more likely to feel amiable and lovely.

From another point of view, there can be no truly perfect and flawless people in the world. If a person is always perfect, it's easy to suspect that there's something false in it. In other words, deliberately showing yourself to be perfect is probably a shortcoming in itself.

Therefore, a person who is good at dealing with the world often intentionally leaves some flaws in obvious places, so that people can see at a glance that he "even makes mistakes in such a simple way". In this way, although you stand out, wood show in the forest, others will not stay away from you. Once he found that "you are also wrong", it will shorten the distance with you.

Chinese PinYin : Gu Yi Zai Ming Xian De Di Fang Liu Yi Dian Er Xia Ci