How to overcome the closed psychology(ru he ke fu feng bi xin li )

In social communication, if you want to make more friends, you must open your mind and accept others with a tolerant and broad mind, while the closed mind is a very disadvantageous one in social communication.

The so-called closure is to cover up one's real thoughts, feelings and desires and try to isolate oneself from the world. People with serious closed psychology distrust anyone and are on deep alert. In communication, they are either silent or irrelevant, never confide in others, and give people the impression of being unfathomable and unpredictable. Like a "black hole", they dare not approach and cannot approach. Generally speaking, people with serious closed psychology are not easy to make intimate friends. Closed psychology, especially among young people, is also a common psychological obstacle.

To overcome the closed psychology, we must renew our ideas. The formation of closed psychology may be influenced by traditional ideas, so we are unwilling to communicate with others. We must change this idea. At the same time, we should remove our ideological concerns, and do not be afraid to be despised by others after disclosing our thoughts, views and personal experiences. Generally speaking, open your heart to others, people will be more likely to understand and accept your current behavior, and will be closer to you.

Chinese PinYin : Ru He Ke Fu Feng Bi Xin Li