Deliberately make the weeds feel like you're not profitable(gu yi rang qiang tou cao gan jiao ni wu li ke tu )

The biggest feature of weeds on the wall is to "think about moving when you see the benefits", which side is better and which side is better. Therefore, he will treat people with "benefit" as his orientation, and will betray his conscience and hurt his relatives and friends for "benefit". He can be with you today or harm you tomorrow. So it's OK to be polite to this kind of person. You don't have to have any interest or human relationship. You'd rather show him that you're "unprofitable" so that he won't disturb you when he's free.

According to legend, the Ming Dynasty talented man Lun Wenxu was gifted and intelligent. When he was young, he was erudite and brilliant, but his family was poor and poor, so he often moved around and chatted. At the end of the year, the creditor forces the door to collect the debt. At the end of one year, Lun Wenxu expected that the creditor would come back, but he had no money to pay off the debt. He wrote a spring festival couplet and pasted it on the door: "jump horse and hold gun, I will collect the debt by the overlord's bravery; shake the whole crown and fan, I will not pay back the money by Kongming's clever plan." As soon as Lun Wenxu, the number one scholar, became famous and returned to his hometown in rich clothes. Usually, the creditors who collected debts came to flatter him with generous gifts one by one, so Lun Wenxu wrote a couplet: "living in a busy city, you can't catch your close relatives and friends; being rich and hidden in the mountains, you can't beat back your son and grandson with three iron bars."

Snobbish people with ulterior motives and taking the helm in the face of the wind have to go away in despair.

Snobbery and villains are the grass on the wall. For their own interests, today and you can be brothers, or even saddened, tomorrow if you are not profitable, he said you are nothing. In order to achieve their own goals, they will do whatever they can to gossip, even lower their personality, bow down and shake their heads and tails around those in power. For the sake of the so-called dignity, regardless of the impact of work, regardless of the interests of the people, fight for power. This kind of person has no righteous deeds, only good deeds, no friends, only opponents. Even today, it seems to be a superficial friendship, and in his heart, it also prevents you from making conflicts of interest.

Snobbish person, if you feed him porridge, he may be submissive to you, but if there is no food for him to eat, he is lucky to slip away, and sometimes he does not forget to fall into the well.

It's better to draw a clear line with them by hanging up the no profit card in advance rather than losing all the credit. The less you have to do with them, the better.

It's not easy to survive, and people's selfishness is deeply rooted. Especially in this extremely competitive era, we should be careful to observe these weeds and deal with them.

Chinese PinYin : Gu Yi Rang Qiang Tou Cao Gan Jiao Ni Wu Li Ke Tu