What kind of comfort is most effective(zen yang de an wei zui you xiao )

When visiting patients, we can't help comforting. But how to comfort them? A friend is ill, you go to the hospital or his home to see him. You might say, "rest assured for a while, you will recover soon." You probably think this is the best consolation! But according to the art of conversation, these two sentences are just a kind wish, but not a comfort. "You'll be well soon." patients are not relieved to hear that from any population except doctors. When we go to see a patient, we must not show mercy on him, because the more you pity him, the more you make him feel that his illness is a kind of pain. So, we're going to do the opposite. A man had a little problem and couldn't get up when he was lying in bed. His friend came to visit him. As soon as he met him, he said something like this: "how lucky you are! I only wish I had a little disease, so that I can also rest in bed for a few days." If you go to see a typhoid patient, when you leave, you say to the patient, "your danger period has passed. After that, you will never suffer from typhoid again. You have more security than us." I believe this will shine in the patient's heart.

Chinese PinYin : Zen Yang De An Wei Zui You Xiao