Don't ask for small things easily(xiao shi bu yao qing yi qiu ren )

Some people like to ask for help no matter how big or small things are. When they really need help, they are very embarrassed: "I always give people trouble. How can I ask for help again?"

In order to avoid this situation, we should give less trouble to other people, whether they are close friends, relatives or classmates. It's better to spend more money rather than trouble people with things like buying something cheap. Specifically:

(1) In peacetime, if you think someone can help you in a certain way, then in addition to this matter, do not disturb him. If you can help him in other ways, try to be proactive and enthusiastic. In this way, when you ask for help, he will be willing to help.

(2) Before you ask for help, whether the other party can really help you is still unknown. Be prepared to be rejected by the other party. If you are rejected, you should not blame the other party at this time. In this way, when you have something to ask for in the future, the other party will try their best to help you.

(3) If you always trouble people with no details, it will disgust them for a long time, because when you think it's a small thing, it may not be a small thing for the other party. The other party may have to work hard to do it for you, but you don't care about it. In this way, when you really need to ask for help, he will be disgusted and have no energy to help you. In a word, the best thing you can do is to ask for it. If you are not easy to ask for help and often help others, when you are in trouble, others will surely lend a helping hand.

Chinese PinYin : Xiao Shi Bu Yao Qing Yi Qiu Ren