Turn the tiger away from the mountain(diao hu li shan da yuan chang )

Some disputes develop into quarrels or even big fights. If the two sides are in a hot temper, and there is a tendency to draw a fuse, the "peacemaker" can make a decision immediately. On the pretext of something urgent (such as someone looking for it or an urgent telegram), he can separate one of them and let them separate temporarily. When their anger is gone and their mind is calm, the dispute will be eliminated.

In fact, there is a higher level of "peacemaker", that is, after calming down the incident, not to take credit, not to be proud, not to be domineering. He can do things without trace, and is "human feelings to the end, send Buddha to the west", to give face back to others.

Chinese PinYin : Diao Hu Li Shan Da Yuan Chang