Praise should be done in an appropriate way(zan mei ying cai qu shi yi de fang shi )

What matters is not only what you say, but also how you express it. Your words, your posture and expression, and how friendly and serious you are when you praise others are all important. They're indicators of what you're really thinking.

You should look each other in the eyes, smile and pay attention to your tone. Your speech should be loud, clear and crisp. Don't speak in a low voice, falter or give up.

Be careful not to start with that tiresome phrase: "by the way, your one is not bad." This makes your compliment sound like a grudge, a reluctance, or a job.

If the conditions are right, you can even hold the other person's hand while praising, or pat him on the arm to create a little intimate atmosphere.

Chinese PinYin : Zan Mei Ying Cai Qu Shi Yi De Fang Shi