Avoid the positive, circuitous persuasion(bi kai zheng mian yu hui quan dao )

In the interpersonal relationship, when we meet people who are difficult to persuade or refuse positively, we should consider changing our strategy, avoiding the positive and making a detour to deal with the persuading objects. They always have certain views, positions and even prejudices in their minds. These views, positions and even prejudices are not generated at will, but are accumulated through life It is formed after tired thinking and analysis, so its root is firm and not easy to change. If the persuaders only know how to debate the other party's point of view, position and Prejudice directly, it will certainly be difficult to work. If we start from the side door and side, we can naturally create a harmonious environment and atmosphere through some circuitous persuasion. And then take the opportunity to turn to the topic, to carry out persuasion, which is the persuasion method of circuitous persuasion.

Chinese PinYin : Bi Kai Zheng Mian Yu Hui Quan Dao