What do you say to people you meet(jian shi me ren shuo shi me hua )

When dealing with people, we should learn to make a specific analysis of people's personality, to see who to say what to say, to speak to the arrogant and insolent people should be concise and forceful, it is better not to talk with such people, the so-called "more talk is useless"; to the silent people, we should be straightforward; to the deep hidden people, you can only show them the information prepared in advance; to the forward looking The latter and the hasty decision-maker should divide his speech into several parts.

It's used to describe a person who is able to talk. Sometimes it's derogatory. But sometimes, if you say something that others love to hear, you will get closer to each other. However, some people don't think so. They always take themselves as the center, always say things to others with thorns, and finally end up in a bad mood.

In history, those gentlemen who are loyal seem to be treacherous. They speak fiercely, which comes from their painstaking heart. They speak directly and show the scenery, but the misfortune comes from their mouth. While those villains who are loyal like flattery and flattery, in fact, they have a very hateful heart and care about the interests, but the blessing comes from their mouth. Because they know the truth that people talk to each other and ghosts talk to each other. Speaking is a profound knowledge, which needs to be understood slowly.

Chinese PinYin : Jian Shi Me Ren Shuo Shi Me Hua