Can be said not credible "Scene words"(ke shuo bu ke xin de chang mian hua )

What is "Scene talk"? In short, it's something that makes people happy. Since it's a "Scene talk", it can be imagined that it's only said in a certain "Scene". This kind of talk does not necessarily represent the real idea of the heart, but after it's said, even if others know you are "insincere", they will feel happy. People who will come know that "Scene talk" is one of the common phenomena in daily communication, and speaking scene talk is also a kind of social skills and survival wisdom.

As the saying goes, "honey can attract flies more than vinegar". In social occasions, we should not be attracted by other people's words. Trusting others' words is not a kind thing, but a dull thing.

For the praise or compliment of the "Scene words", you should especially keep your calm and objective, don't be dazed by other people's two words, because it will affect your self-evaluation. Calm down, you can see the other side's intention.

You can only reserve your attitude to the "Scene words" promised by chest clapping, so as not to let the greater your hope is, the greater your disappointment will be. You can only believe it for the time being, because people can't predict. Since you can't guess the sincerity of others, you have to plan for the worst. It's not difficult to know whether the other party's words are "Scene words". After several times of verification, if the other party's words are flickering, lying with others, or avoiding meeting or talking about the theme, then the other party's words are really "Scene words"!

"Scene talk" is one of the phenomena in the jungle of human nature, and speaking "Scene talk" is also a kind of survival wisdom. People who have been in and out of the jungle of human nature for some time know how to speak and are used to speaking. This is not a crime, nor a deception, but a "necessity". Apart from moral standards, lies are a kind of "wisdom". Therefore, it is an instinct for a person to say "Scene words" that are not harmful to principles and right and wrong standards in the occasions of guests, banquets, meetings and other parties.

Chinese PinYin : Ke Shuo Bu Ke Xin De Chang Mian Hua