Press step by step and take the initiative(bu bu jin bi ba wo zhu dong )

Time is precious to everyone. If you can take out a persistent attitude to fight with the other party, you will psychologically overwhelm the other party and take the initiative.

If you ask for help, you can only act according to circumstances. Among them, there may be more kind people will smile to you, or there may be more difficult people, deliberately harsh, difficult for you. But most of the time, you have to be kind and smiling. The reason is very simple. You are asking him to do things for you. All your purpose is to make things come true in the end. In this process, it can be said that you are bearing humiliation.

Some people are too thin skinned and have too strong self-esteem. As long as they are blocked a little, they will never look back and even quarrel with each other. This is a manifestation of too fragile psychological quality. People who only care about face and don't want to do everything possible to achieve their goals are very difficult to achieve and even more detrimental to the development of their career.

Peter set up his own theater, but he suffered from no drama critics coming to visit. He knew that no publicity, no audience, so he boldly broke into a newspaper to ask "VIP" for help.

Peter called on frank, a famous critic, to meet him. It happened that Frank was visiting London. Peter just stayed at the newspaper and said, "I'll wait until Mr. Frank comes back!" Frank's assistant had no choice but to ask why.

Peter said how excellent his actors were and how enthusiastic the audience was. At last, he showcased: "most of my audience are immigrants who have never seen a real stage play. If you don't write a commentary, then I won't have the money to continue to play!" The assistant was moved by his resolute attitude and agreed to go to the theatre that night.

Who knows, the performance of the open-air theater to the intermission, it encountered a torrential rain. As soon as Peter saw his assistant fleeing from the rain, he immediately glued on him and said, "I know that you critics usually don't comment on half court plays. But I beg you to break the rule anyway

Peter lobbied again and again, and his assistant was finally moved by this rogue method. A few days later, a brief review of the banlazi opera appeared in the newspaper, and Peter's theater became more and more popular.

A little-known theater owner can achieve this step, which is the result of pressing step by step and skillful persuasion. The power of words of people who are tiny is displayed in the process of pressing and grinding.

Of course, lobbying must be measured, and it is only appropriate to approach the theme gradually, or it will be futile.

In the process of asking for help, first of all, we should take the initiative to "entangle" the other party's spirit. We should use both soft and hard means together. If we don't achieve the goal, we will never give up. We will press forward step by step and occupy the dominant position psychologically. In this way, it will be easy for the other party to lobby.

Chinese PinYin : Bu Bu Jin Bi Ba Wo Zhu Dong