Gift giving should be elegant and popular(song li yao jiang jiu ya su xiang yi )

In social interaction, you should pay attention to the choice of gifts that are suitable for the status of the recipient, so as to make your relationship develop in a favorable direction. The same is true when asking for help. In any era, especially in China with a long tradition, people have a strong sense of identity and hierarchy. The identity of each other is different, and the way of giving gifts and the weight of gifts are different. If you treat all people equally, you may be regarded as no big or small, no respect and no base by the other party.

Therefore, as a gift giver, if you want to give a satisfactory gift, you must know his identity.

Status is a symbol of status. Generally speaking, gift givers often take social status as the standard. They give high price goods to people with high status and ordinary goods to people with general status. This has become a trend. In fact, the weight of the gift is directly proportional to the position of the other party in his mind, so when giving a gift, it is inevitable to weigh the identity of the recipient.

Most of the gifts will be different with different identities. We should give health and respect to the people with high seniority; we can give gifts to the younger generation casually or even not; we can give crafts with traditional characteristics to foreign friends.

Different relationship roles and different levels of communication are also easy to form the impression of identity in the hearts of the givers. Naturally, the forms and types of gift exchange are also different.

Generally speaking, for those who pursue spiritual enjoyment with higher cultural level, they should choose exquisite and elegant gifts, such as celebrity calligraphy and paintings, fine arts and crafts, and various high-end cultural goods.

For the people with low cultural level and emphasis on material enjoyment, it is advisable to choose some new, exquisite and fashionable daily consumer goods as gifts, among which food, clothing and play should be the main ones.

There is a principle to give gifts according to your status, that is, if you only give them to people with low status, but ignore those with high status, it will bring you trouble, so it is particularly important to choose the gift suitable for your status when giving gifts.

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